Christmas time brings about diverse feelings and activities amongst each individual person, which makes it truly one of the best times of the year.
I asked a handful of AFS students: Calysta Salas ‘27, Adalyn Smith ‘27, Tiye Abange ‘27, and Lauren Washington ‘26 to answer some questions revolving around Christmas time. They derived very different answers, which indicates how each person values Christmas in their own unique ways.
When should people start decorating their trees? When should people start listening to their Christmas music? What do you do to decorate for the holidays? What Christmas related activities do you do during December? What does Christmas mean to you?
Before we can begin to pick apart what some AFS students get from Christmas and what it means to them, we must first understand where Christmas originates from.
Christmas time was originally inspired by the birth of Jesus Christ. Christmas was recognized in the Christian faith as a time to celebrate our Savior. Mary, Jesus’ mother, traveled to Bethlehem on a donkey. Mary and Joseph (Jesus’ parents) went from door to door asking for somewhere to stay.
One person did not turn them away. They offered that Jesus could be delivered in a barn. Jesus was born in the manger. Three wise men brought Jesus gifts.
When people think of Christmas, some people do not often think of Jesus nor know about where the spirit of Christmas time derives from. There are a lot of things that people associate with Christmas: Santa, hot chocolate, presents under the tree, holiday lights.
When it comes to Christmas related activities or traditions, there is an array of options. Many people like to bake gingerbread cookies or make a gingerbread house, while others might decorate sugar cookies for Santa.
Christmas. A special time of the year. As December is approaching rapidly, the talk of Christmas has been spurring all around the AFS community.
Smith said, “I love making hot chocolate. I feel like I could make hot chocolate every other day in December.”
Salas said, “Usually, I’d just be hanging out with my friends, and we go ice skating or roller skating.”
She also said, “Me and my friends would like to gather and do some things, like gingerbread houses together at my house…[I] usually watch a lot of Christmas movies like Hallmark movies with my mom.”
Abange said, “On Christmas Eve, we will always decorate a gingerbread house…we’ve also gone to different light shows, like going to Peddler’s Village.”
Each individual person has their own tradition in December whether it is making gingerbread houses, seeing light shows, going roller skating, watching movies. There are many ways that one can celebrate Christmas time in a meaningful way to them.
Additionally, my interviewees described the events that take place in their life on Christmas Day.
Salas describes how her family does not normally celebrate Christmas on Christmas Day, but rather, they celebrate it on Christmas Eve.
Salas said, “We are going to one of my family’s houses. We all go there to celebrate, eating food, watching whatever…[until] around twelve o’clock, that’s when we start opening all the presents in front of everybody.
Considering that Salas’s family does not celebrate on Christmas Day, it serves to show how each individual can put their own spin on Christmas.
Smith describes her family tradition, and she said, “They normally do white elephants or secret Santa.”
Abange said, “We’ll be opening gifts as we eat Christmas breakfast…our tradition is normally we’ll have ham cutters….so we will have ham and salt breads for breakfast…we will always make this thing called orange cake, so if the orange cake is done, you will have cake and ham for breakfast.”
Abange moved from Barbados in her freshman year, so her Christmas day experience is derived from her tradition in Barbados. Her testimony serves to show that Christmas is uniquely celebrated, not just across states but across countries.
Washington said, “Usually if Christmas is on a Sunday, we’ll watch church service…in the evening on Christmas day, we like to go around this certain neighborhood in Chestnut Hill and look at all the Christmas lights.”
Considering that all of these people have different experiences revolving around Christmas, it is not a shock that Christmas means something slightly different for each one of them.
Starting off, Smith said, “It reminds me of being together, going to church also, normally my church has this really fun church service that I love watching every year.”
Smith’s comment indicates that her religion intertwines with this holiday.
Additionally, Salas said, “I think of my childhood. I think a lot about when I was little and the excitement, I got well, every time it was Christmas time…usually, the first thought of Christmas is family. That’s all I see when I think about it.”
On the other hand, Abange defined Christmas, saying, “it represents rest and being together with your family…also giving, giving gifts to other people, you know, giving gifts to the poor.”
Washington said, “Usually when I think of Christmas, it reminds me of like my childhood, it reminds me of having little traditions of, doing the Elf on the Shelf, always setting Christmas cookies out for Santa and with the notes and milk, it just reminds me of having this warm fuzzy feeling.”
Washington said, “I know I’m the youngest on both sides of my family so just knowing that, I reminisce about my childhood memories, I’m just getting older, and it’s a scary feeling. But at the same time, it’s very comforting to know that we’re always gonna have these traditions regardless of where I am.”
Washington’s response exemplifies the impact that Christmas can have on someone. Christmas can bring a sense of familiarity through the annual repeated traditions.





























Anais • Dec 12, 2025 at 8:32 am
I didn’t realize that there many different ways to celebrate Christmas. Each household and family does things a little different depending on your back round and traditions. When I go to Germany for Christmas we put live candles on the tree (probably not the smartest). Everyone celebrates differently. Overall, I think the holidays bring happiness and a sense of community and togetherness. Christmas and the holidays aren’t just for families. I also celebrate with my friends through secret Santas and gift giving. I really enjoy giving gifts because it shows how well you know your friends and it makes people happy. It’s also, of course, very fun to open my own gifts and get a bunch of stuff. Overall, I think Christmas and the holidays brings people together and happiness.
chloe • Dec 14, 2025 at 3:46 pm
I was also surprised by the many different ways people celebrate Christmas, which I wasn’t aware of. Families’ different holiday traditions are a broader reminder of essential values in life. When I was a kid and spent time with Jewish relatives over the holidays, I remember being so surprised that they didn’t celebrate Christmas, but, as this article says, there are so many different traditions between families and faiths that share a common ground of love and family. This is heartwarming, and the practice of finding common ground among beliefs is helpful in many areas of life right now. With such a volatile political climate and people’s ideologies getting in the way of so many relationships, remembering that love and family are at the heart of it all is so important.
Sammy • Dec 10, 2025 at 10:04 pm
I agree with the idea that there are many different ways to celebrate Christmas and that this makes it special. My family has its own traditions, like for example we have grapefruits and eggs benedict for breakfast on Christmas day. This is something that is special to me that I look forward to. It’s special partly because it is my family’s tradition specifically, and it’s something we have been doing for a long time. I think there are also different ways to think about Christmas. If you are religious, it has a special meaning because it represents the birth of Jesus. My family isn’t very religious, so for us it’s more about family togetherness and thankfulness. I know some people who think that Christmas should be celebrated through a religious lens, but I think it’s okay for people to instead just think of Christmas as a time to celebrate family and show them you love them.
Tsukki • Dec 10, 2025 at 4:30 pm
This article really helped me to see how different the holiday season looks for everyone in our community. It’s interesting to see the variety of different ways people spend their holiday’s whether they’re spending it with family, friends, or other ways, and how it ties into the different backgrounds they come from. I usually split my holiday time pretty evenly between family, friends, and myself, doing a wide range of activities with each group. One example of what this looks like for me is I spend Christmas Day with family, opening presents, and baking, while on other days I spend time with friends at their houses or out at the mall (spending all of the Christmas money we got). It’s truly incredible to be able to see and experience how the holiday season looks different for everyone.
[email protected] • Dec 10, 2025 at 11:40 am
I found this article so fascinating because it really opened my eyes to the different traditions that exist within families, and how so many of those traditions stem from each of our own unique backgrounds and cultures. For example, I commonly celebrate Christmas with my Pittsburgh Italian family, where we enjoy a seven-fish dinner on Christmas Eve, a tradition common in Italy. We are allowed to open up one gift on Christmas Eve too, although I have no idea where that tradition comes from. It’s very cool to see how people choose to celebrate the joyous holiday, and how their traditions highlight family and connections.
Neiko • Dec 10, 2025 at 11:37 am
I love how the different perspectives and traditions people have on Christmas still connect to opening presents and celebrating with family. Seeing people do different activities for Christmas shows how much of a bonding experience Christmas is. In my family, we usually just open gifts on Christmas and get Chinese takeout that Christmas night. During Thanksgiving or the Super Bowl, I also bring my family around, and I make food and watch football. My celebrations align a bit with the celebrations described here, but my family doesn’t focus on religion as much. As I’ve grown up, for me, Christmas has been less about Jesus and Christianity and more about spending quality time with my family. I think both are great to celebrate, as that’s what the holiday is about, but some families focus on different purposes for Christmas than others.
Josie • Dec 9, 2025 at 2:02 pm
I really enjoyed reading this article. Learning about how other students acknowledge Christmas gave me an insight on how everybody is different but also how in the end, everybody comes to celebrate and do something they love with the people they love. In my family tradition for Christmas, I spend the winter before he major holiday to enjoy delicious treats, but gifts for people, and watch movies with my sister or other family members. During Christmas Eve and the day of Christmas, I connect with my larger family to open gifts all together, eat good food, and just enjoy each other’s presences. Iv’e learned that many people may have different traditions and celebrate in different ways but at least they are feeling the Christmas spirit with a smile
paige • Dec 9, 2025 at 1:48 pm
I think the perspectives in this article are interesting because people tend to shrink Christmas time down into a holiday that is just for gift giving. But it is much more than that. It allows people to connect with relatives and create new connections, because of that, the holidays are filled with much brighter things and attitudes. As someone who celebrates Christmas, I realized as I got older, the holiday became less about getting gifts and more about getting to spend time with people I care about. My traditions are having breakfast with my grandparents on Christmas morning, and helping to make waffles and open gifts. And the night before Christmas, my sisters and I always make christmas cookies together for our parents to eat.
Avila Widestrom • Dec 9, 2025 at 8:56 am
The article described how different each family’s traditions are. My family on the East Coast is relatively small, and we usually spend Christmas with the immediate family, opening presents on Christmas morning, as some of the people in the article do. Leading up to Christmas, the day after Thanksgiving, we go cut down our Christmas tree, put up the decorations outside our house, and throughout December, we watch Christmas movies together. But overall, the traditions stop there, and on Christmas Day, while some are celebrating with extended family or eating a large meal, it often feels sad and empty at my house. But when we go to Portland (where my mother is from), it feels much more festive to go ice skating or hike on snowy mt hood. My mom has three siblings, all of whom have kids, so the festivities feel fuller. Overall, the article highlights the differences in Christmas traditions, even the downsides. Although it is my favorite holiday when I am at home, it feels sad and underscores the emptiness of my family.